Lube - a must for more pleasure in bed!

Let’s be honest: sex can be fantastic, but that doesn’t mean everything always glides along by itself. Whether you’re in the thick of the toddler years, have a stressful everyday life, are noticing hormonal changes, or simply want to make pleasure even more enjoyable, there’s one simple product that often makes a bigger difference than you might think: lube.

And if you’re thinking, “But I’m not dry?” - hold on. Lube isn’t just about solving a problem. It’s just as much about enhancing something that’s already wonderful. Less friction, more sensation, and a smoother experience from start to finish.

What exactly is lube?

Lube is a liquid or gel that reduces friction during sex, masturbation, or play with sex toys. It makes touching, penetration, and stimulation smoother, more comfortable, and often significantly more pleasurable.

For anyone experiencing vaginal dryness, which is common with stress, breastfeeding, menopause, hormonal changes, or certain medications, lube can make a big difference. But even when your body is already getting into the mood, a little extra glide can enhance the sensation and make it easier to relax.

3 reasons to use lube

• Less friction, more pleasure: Friction can irritate the skin and make sex less comfortable. Lube provides a smoother and more pleasant sensation.
• A better sensation with sex toys: Many sex toys feel significantly better with a little extra lube, especially during penetration or longer periods of stimulation.
• Gentler on the condom: Water- and silicone-based lube can reduce the risk of condoms chafing or breaking, while also making the experience more comfortable.

Which type of lube should you choose?

Lube comes in several different varieties, and which one you choose depends on how you want to use it. Here are the most common types:

Water-based lube

The most versatile choice. Water-based lube works with condoms and all types of sex toys. It’s easy to wash off and a great first choice if you’re unsure what to pick.

Examples: Drip Water-based Lube, Pjur Infinity Water-based, and Fleshlube Water.

Silicone-based lube

Silicone-based lube often lasts longer and is ideal when you want a really slippery sensation that doesn’t need to be reapplied as often. It also works well in water. However, it should generally not be used with silicone sex toys, as it may affect the material.

Examples: Pjur Original Bodyglide, Lubricate:IT Silicone Based, and Überlube.

Oil-based lube

Oil-based lube can feel soft and sensual and is often well suited to massage or solo play. However, it should not be used with latex condoms, as oil can weaken latex.

Example: Viamax Organic Glide.

Hybrid lube

Hybrid lube often combines properties from different types of lube. It can provide a soft and long-lasting sensation, but always check whether the product is compatible with condoms and sex toys before use.

Examples: RFSU Magic Glide, S8 Hybrid Fist Lube, and Liquid Silk.

How to use lube

It’s better to start with a little than half the bottle. A small amount often goes further than you might think, and you can always add more if needed. Try warming the lube between your fingers first and apply it wherever it feels best - to your body, the condom, or the sex toy.

There’s no shame in pausing to apply more. On the contrary, it can become a natural and rather hot part of the moment. What matters is that it feels good, not that you use an exact amount.

Some lubes are flavored, but if you’re planning to use lube for oral sex, it’s best to choose a product made specifically for that purpose. That way, you’ll avoid surprises that taste more like a chemistry lab than strawberries.

Lube and sex toys - a really great combination

Want to get more out of your sex toys? Then lube is an easy trick. It helps both penetrating and external toys glide better, feel more natural, and provide a more comfortable experience.

Just remember to match the lube to the material. Water-based lube works with all types of sex toys. Silicone-based lube, on the other hand, should not be used with silicone sex toys unless the product’s instructions clearly say that it is safe.

So, what are you waiting for?

Having lube at home is a bit like having good olive oil in the kitchen. You may not think about it every day, but when you need it, you don’t want to be stuck with something subpar.

Whether you enjoy yourself solo, with a partner, or want to explore new ways to play, the right lube can make a big difference. It’s simple, discreet, and can take the experience from “nice” to “why haven’t we used this more often?”.

Shall we call it sex life’s little shortcut to more pleasure?

Yes, we shall.