How to give the world's best handjob
Handjob - an art to learn or super simple?
After a few years of experience, I can at least say that EVERYONE is different. I actually haven't come across two guys who like exactly the same thing. I really thought I had the right technique when I got together with my current boyfriend. I had practiced for so long on my ex… Serves me right. Their approaches were completely different. Four years of practicing a gentle and soft handjob, with some rotation on the head of the penis, followed by slightly firmer pressure down at the base, was all in vain. My new boyfriend wanted it hard, fast and firm.
So I had to relearn from scratch.
It took a few months, then I became a hard-handed expert. With powerful strokes and a determined expression, I got better and better at giving handjobs every time.
Mshop has a handjob machine if you want to try an amazing handjob - The Handy.
Over the years, however, I've learned a thing or two about handjobs that applies to ALL the guys I've been with, and I thought I'd share those tips here.
Flavored lube
With a flavored lube, everything intimate becomes a little more enjoyable. Even if you aren't going to use your mouth, you'll still smell the scent of sweet raspberries, chocolate, vanilla or something else. Lube is also the best way to get your hand gliding smoothly over his penis.
Stroke upward, not downward, for the best handjob
Most guys seem to like being stroked “upward,” which may be explained by the fact that you're a little more relaxed on the way down than on the way up. It becomes uncomfortable when the foreskin gets stuck beneath the edge of the glans, but if you use a loose grip on the way down and a firmer one on the way up, this usually won't happen.
Learn up and down first before trying rotation
My theory, and I'm being extremely subjective here, is that guys normally don't rotate when they masturbate. But when someone else is in charge, they like it. It may also be because the goal when masturbating is always to ejaculate, and you generally want to "finish quickly." Unlike when you're two, when it's nice to let the pleasure last a little longer. That's why rotation is recommended and is usually appreciated. To be completely sure - try gently twisting your hand when you're up by the glans, then ask, "Do you like this?"
Slow down
Many girls think that the faster the strokes, the hornier the guy. This is of course individual, but overall, people with penises are more sensitive than you might think, especially on the glans. Therefore, start slowly and gradually build up the handjob so that it gets faster and faster. Surely you wouldn't want to be turbo-stroked the first thing that happens? Differences in pace are also wonderful, and it can be good to vary the tempo during the handjob.
Invite a cobra
Just as much as you get turned on when he brings out a vibrator for you, he'll appreciate it when you bring out a sex toy for him. Cobra Libre II is perfect for the purpose, and I promise he'll get very turned on when you use lube to insert his glans into this modern sex toy for men. Cobra Libre isn't like an ordinary pocket pussy; it's not in-and-out movement that works here. Instead, you simply place the penis in the “sleeve” and let the vibrations do the work. This one has received top ratings and is a sex toy we like to highlight for guys who want to try something new.
Keep the rhythm
To help the guy maintain his erection and arousal, it's recommended that you keep a certain rhythm. Imagine a windshield wiper set to speed 2 out of 3, or that you're doing perhaps 4 strokes per second. Try not to be jerky, but keep some kind of rhythm and don't stop while you're moving. Many people like it when you vary between different “programs” that you create yourself, but without stopping. Does that sound vague? Let me explain - for example - do five quick strokes, then 7-10 medium-fast strokes and one very slow one. If you can see that he likes it and is about to come, keep alternating between very fast and medium-fast movements.
Don't forget the prostate
If you want to maximize his orgasm, you should absolutely combine the handjob with prostate stimulation. At Mshop, for example, we have the anal plug Scorpio, which easily reaches his g-spot and can contribute to powerful orgasms. Stimulating the prostate is also a better alternative to erectile medication for achieving an erection, plus it's available without a prescription!
Get the angle right
The angle of the penis can be changed during a handjob, but not too much. Angle the penis upward toward the stomach or toward the floor, unless the guy is upside down, of course. Angling it to the side doesn't make anything more pleasurable, so skip it.
Whisper in his ear
A few quiet words in his ear while you're giving him a handjob are very sensual and show that you're going ALL IN and enjoying what you're doing.
Hot vs. cold
It's a classic, but it works every time. Alternating between hot and cold is a great move. Try holding an ice cube in your hand before you get started.
Maintain eye contact
Try to maintain eye contact throughout; it makes the experience even sexier. If the partner receiving the handjob doesn't like eye contact, a blindfold may be preferable.
Don't neglect the extras
Don't forget the balls! Gently caress his testicles with your other hand while you stroke him. Remember to be careful; this is an extremely sensitive part of a guy's most intimate area.
If you want to read even more about handjobs, there's a very good article (in English) here.
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