Firmer erections and explosive orgasms? Try stimulating the prostate.

Where is the prostate located, and what is the best way to stimulate it? Read our guide and get the answers you’re looking for.
By Johan G.
3 min read
Harder erections and explosive orgasms? Try stimulating the prostate

Anal stimulation for men has long been taboo - and if you have never tried anal play, it can feel scary to try. However, we want to emphasize that stimulating your P-spot is far too pleasurable to miss out on.

The P-spot, or prostate as it is properly called, is a gland located just below a man's bladder. You can find the prostate approximately 5 cm inside the anus, just below the bladder. It is often compared to a walnut, both in size and texture.

The prostate can be stimulated both internally, through the anus, and externally through the perineum.

Direct stimulation through the anus obviously provides the best effect, but if penetration feels uncomfortable, external stimulation works well too.

Read more about the P-spot here - in our blog post where we take an in-depth look at the prostate.

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The intense prostate orgasm and harder erections

Many people report getting a stronger erection and being able to last longer before coming when they stimulate their prostate. However, this is a matter of getting used to it, because it is also common to be overwhelmed by how pleasurable it feels at first, so greater stamina only comes after a few attempts - practice makes perfect.

Achieving climax through prostate stimulation is described as a completely different experience from what you may be used to - you can think of them as two different kinds of orgasms. Instead of the usual pulsating sensation that occurs when you come from masturbating, anal stimulation can produce a constant stream of prostate orgasms through your body. In other words, it is more intense, longer-lasting and earth-shattering. Many also describe how the amount of ejaculate increases significantly.

Harder erections and an explosive orgasm? Try stimulating the prostate

How do I stimulate the prostate?

Stimulate the perineum externally

This can be done with your fingers, but for the best stimulation, we recommend using some type of vibrator to achieve stimulation as deep as possible. Try a vibrating dildo or a vibrating butt plug. For the absolute best effect, however, we recommend a Magic Wand Massager because they are incredibly powerful and provide very deep stimulation.

  1. Use your index and middle fingers. Follow the base of the penis toward the anus, along the perineum. You can feel a fairly distinct indentation where the base of the penis meets the pelvic floor muscles.
  2. Press both deeply and firmly right at the junction between the base of the penis and the muscles. It can be difficult to know what you should feel the first time, so experiment with different pressures and movements until you find the right spot!
  3. Once you have found the right spot, experiment. Apply different types of pressure, make circular movements and use your knuckles. Feel free to use lube, which will make it much more pleasurable.

Bonus: Massage the penis at the same time. And if you are with a partner, combining oral sex with prostate massage feels incredibly pleasurable.

Stimulate the prostate from inside

For internal or direct stimulation, lube and patience are essential. The anus does not produce natural lubrication, so you must use lube to avoid possible friction and, above all, because it feels good. It does not matter whether you choose to use your fingers or a prostate vibrator.

  1. Make sure you are aroused and apply plenty of lube to your fingers or prostate vibrator.
  2. Relax the muscles around the anus by massaging with your fingers or a vibrator. But do not insert anything just yet.
  3. Insert one finger or your prostate wand approximately 5 cm into the anus. Aim toward your navel. And take it slowly! One step at a time.
  4. Once you have found the right spot, experiment with different pressures and movements. If you have a prostate vibrator, we recommend exploring the different vibration modes - they do more than you think!

Tip! Some people find it easier to press their anus against the finger/vibrator instead of the other way around. This is especially important if you are trying this with your partner. Keep your partner's hand still - and slowly move toward it at a pace that feels comfortable for you.

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