Give blowjobs - suck dick - that’s what those who perform oral sex think

Blowjobs - Giving a guy a blowjob - Sucking cock (or another person with a penis) is an experience the first time. Yours may have been awful and disgusting, or it may have been wonderful and appreciated. Or perhaps you have not done it yet. These are the experiences of people who give blowjobs - this is how it feels when we suck you off.

Sucking cock - so how do you do it?

In theory, it is not that difficult - start by stroking, take it slowly, use your tongue, do not forget the balls, vary the speed, use your hands, look into his eyes, and so on forever. We can all agree that a blowjob is about the man's pleasure, but what we most often forget is: what do the people giving blowjobs actually prefer, and what thoughts are spinning through their minds while they juggle both instructions and genitals?

Size does not matter

Regardless of the size of your penis, it is possible to perform oral sex. A penis that does not fit in an ordinary mouth can be stimulated with hands and tongue, while a very small penis can likewise be stimulated through oral sex. Size is one of the last things a person giving a blowjob thinks about - so you can relax, your penis is fine just the way it is.

Skipped the shower before a blowjob?

It goes without saying - having your genitals confined in tight underwear or trousers for most hours of the day causes sweat - sweat that builds up and then smells. Make sure to shower when the opportunity arises and you expect (or hope for) a blowjob. And be thorough! Think about all the folds and hidden corners. It makes the experience much more pleasurable for everyone involved.

All kinds of reactions are worth their weight in gold

You may not think it is necessary, but it can be helpful for both you and the person giving the blowjob to receive some kind of indication that things are being done the right (or wrong!) way. It does not have to be cheers or a detailed description, but an affirmative moan or confirming sigh is better than complete silence. This way, you avoid having an uncomfortable experience, and the giver can start progressing with their techniques instead of worrying that everything is going completely wrong.

Big no-no during a blowjob

Coming without warning is NOT okay when someone is giving you a blowjob. Just as mentioned above, all sounds are good sounds. Let the person giving you a blowjob know that it feels good - so they can tell when you are close to coming. Partly so they can adjust their movements (you may want to draw it out?), but also so they can prepare themselves. A surprise ejaculation in the face or straight down the throat is not preferable and can become an experience that leads to fewer blowjobs in the future. And if your partner has not literally told you that they want you to surprise them by coming in/on them, do not do it.

Swallowing is not the rule

Some people like to swallow, others spit it out. Some like to swallow sometimes, while others do not even want it near their mouth. You do not know unless you ask, but never assume that someone wants to swallow. If the person does not swallow, it is nothing personal against you (the person just went down on you…), it is simply a matter of personal taste that varies from person to person.

Not everyone can suck cock

Everyone understands that most men get turned on by the sound of slurping, moaning during a blowjob, and gagging - but despite this, it is not always particularly enjoyable to have a penis forced down your throat, even though the body's defense mechanism (which it ultimately is) says no. Eyes water, the throat burns, and oxygen does not reach the lungs. Some people simply cannot take your entire penis all the way down their throat, no matter how many hands you place on the back of the head of the person giving the blowjob. If someone wants to give you a blowjob, have a conversation about your expectations and the person's feelings and boundaries. If there is no time for that conversation, then do not try -> Do not tempt fate.

It is not always easy to know

Many women and other people with vaginas - as you can understand - do not have a penis or any balls themselves and may therefore have difficulty knowing what you prefer and what feels good. Do you want to be bitten when you get your blowjob? Nibbled? Pulled a little? Tickled? Do you want to use a butt plug at the same time as you get your blowjob? Remember that all guys prefer different things, which means that any previous experiences may clash with your preferences. Therefore, let the person know what you want them to do and when it feels good.

An extra touch

There are many different sex toys that can enhance the experience of oral sex with a partner. Among other things, you can use a stroker, a G-spot wand, or another type of vibrator.

You can read more about different products that are perfect for oral sex in our guide. Click the image below to access it.